You may be feeling like you are the center of some unfortunate drama, or that you’ve been a disappointment because of your inability to help, but that’s not entirely the case. If you are usually the one people go to for advice in how to solve a problem, it may be difficult to do so at this time because you are too distracted by the problem itself. Once you are able to look beyond the negative aspects of what is going on and realize the potential for this situation to benefit those involved you will be able o communicate that positivity and reclaim your role as helpful advisor.
