A lady in your life isn’t exactly being on her best behavior. She might be talking about you behind your back or giving you an obvious and purposeful cold shoulder. This would make anyone feel sad or even angry and tour first reaction might be to give her the same attitude. Before you go doing anything that would put you down at her level, try to imagine what would drive a person to act like that. Maybe she’s been treated poorly and is taking it out on you. Maybe the two of you are laboring under some misunderstanding about each other based on unfortunate first impressions. Maybe she’s just an unpleasant person. Whatever the case may be, check yourself before you react. If anything, kill her with kindness, despite your initial desire to get even.